mengxiu, did u do clutch relay by pass? if not, it might be the cluth relay that give you problem.
it happen to me last time.
my cluth relay is spoiled, sometime i can get the car started easily (usually early in the morning), but hard to get it started at other time.
the syndrome i had
01. no sound (from starter) after i turn the key.
02. If I'm lucky, i may get it start, if not i just need to do few more times to start.
is it same with your case?