Comparing among women

[Agl]

Realised that sum guys(my frenz)like to compare their gf/wife with others one, y this kind of problem exits?

Is that mean: their gf/wife is not good enough? If not, y the always said that kind of word

 

[BlackSamurai]

in chinese, there is a said,
Lao Gong Shi bie Ren de Hao, Lao Po Shie bie Ren de Jiao

You always found that others' Husband is better than yours, others' wife is better than yours.

Ppl dunno how to appreaciate what they have in hand, is that simple. And we always want to look for better option, we want to improve.

If you are very satisfied with your current status, you might be in dangerous position, you may lost the intention to improve yourself.

 

[elaine2284]

human being will not satisfied when wat they are having.....

 

[NOSkill]

Just like they compare our penis sizes during a solitary party.
It seems 100% normal to me.

 

[satria_95]

Just like they compare our penis sizes during a solitary party.
It seems 100% normal to me.

Hahaha this is a funny remark
Guess it's like people comparing their cars with other people's cars, power and such and what so what not.:lol::lol:

 

[BlackSamurai]

Guess it's like people comparing their cars with other people's cars, power and such and what so what not.:lol::lol:

agree with Noskill and Satria_95

 

[Agl]

They really (i mean those guys) won't appreaciate wat in their hands, if they think she's juz real perfect to him then, y the guy still wan to compared...this mean that gal is not good enough for him.

If that guy keep on comparing his gf wit others, may b he will lost her in the end.

 

[alvinpck]

Realised that sum guys(my frenz)like to compare their gf/wife with others one, y this kind of problem exits?

Is that mean: their gf/wife is not good enough? If not, y the always said that kind of word

gals oso got compare their bf with her fren's bf o wat not laaa.................

 

[NOSkill]

They really (i mean those guys) won't appreaciate wat in their hands, if they think she's juz real perfect to him then, y the guy still wan to compared...this mean that gal is not good enough for him.

If that guy keep on comparing his gf wit others, may b he will lost her in the end.

I don't know if you're a female or a guy who has no GF, but I bet every BF has heard comments like "My co-worker got a blah blah blah as birthday gift and I get only this silly card??"

 

[SPEEDSPiRiT]

the grass is always greener on the other side..........................................

 

[AE80TypeD]

exactly like SPEEDSPiRit said.

the fact that YOU are analyzing his gf is perfect urself and ur statements show that u are also comparing. i know u may not acknowledge that u've ever wondered about ur own gf or idly thought of a comparison to her (assuming u have one), so ask urself this; if YOU were him and already know that gf from head to toe, wouldnt you have possibly found something about her that other ppl are better at?

comparisons, even unintentional small ones, are inevitable in our lives.

 

[QueenBee]

the grass is always greener on the other side..........................................

But wait till ya get to da other side kekekeke U wudnt know watz ON da other side. Therez a chinese saying...'yat kar em zhi yat kar sie'

 

[SPEEDSPiRiT]

But wait till ya get to da other side kekekeke U wudnt know watz ON da other side. Therez a chinese saying...'yat kar em zhi yat kar sie'

sad to say but i dont understand chinese well.......
mine explaining it in english?

 

[QueenBee]

Oppzz sowwy. Meaning (translated directly from chinese saying)...'1 family dunno another family story'

 

[QueenBee]

Realised that sum guys(my frenz)like to compare their gf/wife with others one, y this kind of problem exits?

Is that mean: their gf/wife is not good enough? If not, y the always said that kind of word

KIASU feelin la

 

[SPEEDSPiRiT]

Oppzz sowwy. Meaning (translated directly from chinese saying)...'1 family dunno another family story'

hmm... thanks but i still dont understand it :)
it's alright... thanks alot...
hehe..

 

[QueenBee]

hmm... thanks but i still dont understand it :)
it's alright... thanks alot...
hehe..

Lolz...meaning U wudnt know other ppl'z family prob.

Other ppl may look happy but no one will know their family prob ma cuz itz personal.

 

[SPEEDSPiRiT]

Lolz...meaning U wudnt know other ppl'z family prob.

Other ppl may look happy but no one will know their family prob ma cuz itz personal.

ahahahaha alright alright :)
thanks again for explaining it nicely.

but that's how some ppl think lor..
they just see at the BRIGHT side of ppl's life never go see the DARK side yet...
if they see the DARK side they dont even wanna compare with them anymore...

 

[QueenBee]

Yea. tatz rite. tatz wat I mean by wait till ya get to da greener side hehehe then only U'll know watz really ON da green side.

 

[norika_sakai]

i do agreed to most of you all posting here....

is not nice that heard the males keep on comparing their gf this la that la ...not good enough or whateva k....but the females did the same thing also ...did you all know ..hahaha..(no offense to gals ya) ...i have been heard girls comparing their bf too, comparing about how good the bf treated her , how bad....buy this la that la....drive a nice car ler...drive a sport car......(i heard this from other tables that i dont know them, all girls, when i was at mamak yam char)...i was thinking if their bf drive a 'tin chat' car dont know how lehh.....hehehe....no offense ya, queen bee and to all the girls in this thread.....hehhe..if said anyting wrong..i'm willing to appologise....k.....hahha..i also not helping the male here although i'm a guy here.....hehhe..i'm neutral...

like Agl said....must satisfied what are we having now in our hand...have to appreaciate....